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Achieving Life Changes That Produce Results Your Heart Desperately Wants

Move beyond barriers that keep you from growing.

Achieving life changes that produce the results your heart desperately wants.

When you look at the heart beliefs you hold about life (Proverbs 4:23), and understand they control your behaviors and attitudes; you have the key to real permanent change. I will guide you through a process that challenges your beliefs and leads you with accountability and focus to a more satisfied you.

Family Counseling

When the family is seen as the most influential unit, you realize everyone affects everyone else. I will help you make that work in a positive way so each member is contributing to the good of the whole family.

Parent Coaching

Let me help you build character traits into the belief system of your children, figure out ways to reduce the level of effectiveness the culture has on them, and establish habits that strengthen your relational influence with your children.

Premarital and Marriage Counseling

I will help couples move towards a place where they feel closer with each other, more than any other person; able to say ‘their mate is their best friend.’ That’s the relationship God intended to create in marriage.

Individual

I will help you identify and move beyond barriers that are keeping you from growing. It is hard to have the self awareness and objectivity necessary for growth. Let me help you identify pathways to recognize and change needed areas.

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Small Things Done Often

December 21, 2017 / Bob Roland / Small Things Done Often
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When I was a boy, my father ran a Texaco service station in the Lower Catskill Mountains of New York State. Built 35 feet off Hwy 209, our station sat on a pie-shaped lot with 240 feet of highway frontage. A vacationing town, Godeffroy’s population topped 5,000 in the summer. In the winter, the tourists disappeared and we thinned to a town of 500. The other thing that happened in the winter? It snowed. A lot. And by a lot, I mean the snow often reached the handle of the service station door.

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Because my father didn’t want to pay to have the lot plowed, it became my younger brother’s and my job to help our father shovel the entire parcel by hand. A pretty overwhelming, three-day job for anyone. A particularly overwhelming job for boys only ten and twelve years old. How did my father teach us to complete our massive task while also keeping us from losing heart? Like this.

“Don’t look at the whole job,” he’d say, “Make every shovel count.” He showed us how to “cut it clean,” so that each jab and scoop of the shovel left a patch of earth completely emptied of snow. One purposeful, well executed shovelful in and of itself is a small thing, but purposeful, well-executed shoveling done over and over and over again eventually adds up to a job well done.

Small things done often. It’s a phrase I’ve grown fond of, particularly because life hands us some pretty overwhelming tasks. Like cultivating a healthy marriage –  raising well-adjusted kids – and maintaining a vibrant faith in the midst of a suffering and broken world. The scope of the tasks before us can dishearten even the most dedicated spouse, the most determined parent, the most devout believer. Most of the important things in life such as character, skill sets and faithfulness are achieved by repetitively doing small tasks. How do we keep the big picture in mind without becoming completely overwhelmed by it? How do we, day after day, keep up the good work? How do we, year after year, and not lose heart? How do we teach this principle to our children? How do parents model it in family? This central thought will always be in the background as I write this blog.

A commitment to ‘small things done often.’ I think my dad was onto something.’

Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary. Galatians 6:9

Also read, “Make Your Bed.” Admiral William H. McRaven, former head of the Navy Seals.

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Perseverance: A for Archer, V for Victor

December 28, 2017 / Bob Roland / Perseverance

As a parent, I knew it was essential to teach my kids perseverance. You just can’t beat it when it comes to, say, finishing chores, completing homework, getting into and through college, and finding and keeping a job. Throw in friendships and community, dating and marriage—not to mention raising children—and the skill of perseverance just […]

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The Big Framework for Parenting

Image / December 21, 2017 / Bob Roland / Framework

It is essential to understand the big picture of parenting before we jump into the day to day job of parenting.  The big picture should coordinate our parenting actions, it tells us which are the big rocks I need to deal with and what are the small rocks that may irritate us but aren’t that […]

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The Role ‘Emotions’ Play in Good Parenting.

December 21, 2017 / Bob Roland / Small Things Done Often
This entry is part 6 of 6 in the series Small Things Done Often

  The verse we shared earlier from Proverb 4:23, tells us to guard our hearts for that is the source of everything we do. Whether good or bad, heart beliefs have strong influence in what we do every day.  Heart beliefs have a depth of commitment that makes them part rational and part emotional. You […]

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